Sally Kilpatrick’s Bless Her Heart

I’m not a Southerner by birth, but I’ve lived down South long enough to know just what a double-edged sword the phrase “bless your/her/his heart” can be. If you don’t already understand this Southernism, here’s a novel that will tell you all you need to know.


Bless Her HeartSally Kilpatrick’s delightful Bless Her Heart begins with its protagonist, Posey Love, stuck in a ten-year train wreck of a bad marriage to a man who embodies everything wrong with the man as head of household, woman as submissive and obedient wife branch of conservative religion. In fact, Chad Love started his own ministry largely to take advantage of others.


Posey, who wants a baby more than anything, has put up with her domineering husband for years, at least partly in reaction to her own mother, who has raised three children by three men to whom she was never married at all. But when Posey discovers in quick succession that Chad has been cheating (adultery and hitting are deal breakers even for Posey), run off with another woman, failed to make the car payment, and sold the house, she begins to take back her own life and finds out that hard as that is, she’s up to the challenge.


As Posey grows into the person she was always meant to be, she takes some adventurous steps. Encouraged by her free-spirited younger half-sister, she sets out to not only give up something important for Lent (church!), but also to sample the Seven Deadly Sins, with generally hilarious results. Along the way she finds out that wishes can come true in very surprising ways.


Bless Her Heart handles some very serious issues, ranging from emotional abuse to Alzheimer’s, with sympathy, understanding, and humor. Especially humor. The characters, from Posey’s rediscovered best friend Liza to her unconventional but wise mother Lark, are well developed and supportive, and Chad is a man the reader will indeed love to hate. It’s a joy to watch Posey climb out of her self-imposed shell and blossom.


This is the fourth of Kilpatrick’s loosely related novels set in and around the town of Ellery, Tennessee. Don’t miss The Happy Hour Choir (with its heroine, Beulah Land), Bittersweet Creek (”Romeo and Juliet with cows”), and Better Get to Livin’ (the funniest love story ever set in a funeral home).


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